Yes, there’s hope.
Yes, it can get better.
Yes, that wish to feel good about yourself can come true.
The good news? You’re already enough.
The bad news? You’re just not feeling it… yet.
And yes, you’re the main character in the story—the expert on your own life and the one who has to do the heavy lifting, but sometimes we all could use some support, some shoring up if you will, and a guide to help us find our way, discover new possibilities, and change direction.
Here’s the dirty little secret: It’s not easy being human and there’s no shame in the struggle.
Are you feeling led astray and washed out to sea by any of these?
Or maybe it’s simply the feeling that there’s something wrong with you?
Whatever you call them, they all mess with your most important relationship: the one with yourself. They’re dampening your joy and satisfaction, and most unfortunately, your comfort in your own skin—your happiness with being YOU.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. However it might feel, it’s not just you–you aren’t the only one to have faced these same challenges. Typically, it’s because we pick up faulty messages somewhere along the way and end up telling ourselves the wrong story about our capabilities and our worthiness of love and belonging.
So listen up. Here’s the truth: You don’t have to stick to those stories because solutions leading to new endings are available. Need proof? Look at the list above—low can be raised, lack can be strengthened, and feelings can be changed. Imagine how great that would be.
Take it from Toni Morrison:
The theme you choose may change or simply elude you, but being your own story means you can always choose the tone. It also means that you can invent the language to say who you are and what you mean. …So, from my point of view, which is that of a storyteller, I see your life as already artful, waiting, just waiting and ready for you to make it art.
Are you tired of just imagining how great your life could be?
Wouldn’t it be a shame to lose any more time?
Would you love to get started on writing your next chapter?
Want to schedule your free 20-minute phone consultation?
I believe loving yourself changes EVERYTHING
And, like John Lennon, I believe all you need is love, but I also know that self-love is often much easier said than done.
I’d like to help show the way and would be honored to hear your story.